{"id":6128,"date":"2020-12-23T09:14:00","date_gmt":"2020-12-23T14:14:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/pattiphillipsbooks.com\/kerriansnotebook\/?p=6128"},"modified":"2025-04-24T16:32:51","modified_gmt":"2025-04-24T20:32:51","slug":"kn-p-268-christmas-thoughts-for-2020","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/pattiphillipsbooks.com\/kerriansnotebook\/2020\/12\/kn-p-268-christmas-thoughts-for-2020\/","title":{"rendered":"KN, p. 268  &#8220;Christmas Thoughts for 2020&#8221;"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/pattiphillipsbooks.com\/kerriansnotebook\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/12\/StainedGlassNativityDSCF1111.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-medium wp-image-1295\" src=\"https:\/\/pattiphillipsbooks.com\/kerriansnotebook\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/12\/StainedGlassNativityDSCF1111-224x300.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"224\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/pattiphillipsbooks.com\/kerriansnotebook\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/12\/StainedGlassNativityDSCF1111-224x300.jpg 224w, https:\/\/pattiphillipsbooks.com\/kerriansnotebook\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/12\/StainedGlassNativityDSCF1111-767x1024.jpg 767w, https:\/\/pattiphillipsbooks.com\/kerriansnotebook\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/12\/StainedGlassNativityDSCF1111.jpg 1483w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 224px) 100vw, 224px\" \/><\/a><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif;\"><em><span style=\"color: #800000;\">If there are no paragraph separations in this article, please double-click on the title to create a more readable version.<\/span><\/em><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 14pt; font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif;\">Christmas will be quieter and smaller at our house this year. No masks required, because it will be just us. A woof in the background reminded me to tell you that Hammett will be here as well.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 14pt; font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif;\">Bridget went back to Texas after three months, when the hotel chain she likes instituted safe-zone protocols. She packed plenty of masks, disposable gloves, antibacterial spray, and cleaning cloths just in case conditions were not as promised. They were, but she felt safer having been prepared. She packed food for the two days on the road, in case restaurants weren\u2019t open. Her usual cross country rest stops had restrictions on the number of people allowed in at a time &#8211; food selections were limited, but gas was plentiful and cheap. She arrived home safe, but tired. We\u2019ll miss that big smile and warm heart and the roar of the Mustang.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 14pt; font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif;\">What we, and many others will miss are the large friends and family gatherings, the crowded church services with all the singing and hugs, and food aplenty to be had at everyone\u2019s house.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 14pt; font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif;\">Sheila and I live by this idea: \u201cWe may not be able to control what goes on in the world, but we can control our reaction to it.\u201d We looked back through earlier holiday posts and noticed that some of our ideas of living out the reason for the season would not be possible this year because of the Pandemic, but others still work.<\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><span style=\"font-size: 14pt; font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif;\">Try cooking\/quilting\/book clubs with friends, via GoToMeeting. Sheila misses her cooking group and had a ball when they each stood in their own kitchens and worked on cookie recipes together.<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-size: 14pt; font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif;\">Be less critical of each other. Your way might not be the only way to get the job done.<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-size: 14pt; font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif;\">Smile. Often. Maybe in reaction to a beautiful sunset. You\u2019ll feel better.<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-size: 14pt; font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif;\">Give the gift of forgiveness. Soften your heart and forget the small stuff before it becomes the big stuff.<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-size: 14pt; font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif;\">Write a letter sharing your week and snailmail it to the older people in your life. Not everyone has email.<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-size: 14pt; font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif;\">Call people that you might normally be meeting at your favorite bistro for lunch. They miss you, too.<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-size: 14pt; font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif;\">Give the gift of time. Memories are made when people laugh and giggle together, whether online or on the phone, or if you\u2019re lucky, face-to-face.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 14pt; font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif;\"><br \/>\nAbove all, have the best holiday season you can arrange, and a much better 2021, when life just might resemble something approaching normal again.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 14pt; font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif;\">In Hope and Peace,<\/span><br \/>\n<span style=\"font-size: 14pt; font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif;\">Patti &amp; the Kerrians<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Christmas with the 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